Oh Danny Boy,

The reason that equality for the GLBT community is visible in my life time:

“I have described myself as being ‘gently eccentric’ and slightly different as a person just because I’ve had a very different set of influences growing up than anybody else in my peer group did. I think it’s important for somebody from a big, commercial movie series like Harry Potter and particularly because I am not gay or bisexual or transgendered. The fact that I am straight makes not a difference, but it shows that straight people are incredibly interested and care a lot about this as well.” - Daniel Radcliffe, speaking from the NYC headquarters of the LGBT teen suicide prevention hot-line The Trevor Project, for whom he has just made a promotional film.

15 years ago when I was in high school, there were no major Hollywood celebrities willing to step up to the plate and go to bat for me.  Those who did were on the fringes.  For me personally, I’m not sure it would had much of an influence in my life, I was never a big celebrity follower but here we have Harry Potter, entirely straight with a HUGE following, and willing to put his money where his mouth is.  The Trevor Project was founded not long after I got out of high school and there is a link to it on my sidebar here on this blog.  It’s one of the few charities that I’d consider making a donation to.  Perhaps you might as well.

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It’s Betty Time

Another video from Ms. Betty Bowers….it’s satire folks.  Get over it.

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Gary Glen and Co. at it again in Michigan

Four Christians on Tuesday filed a federal lawsuit challenging the recently enacted Hate Crimes Prevention Act, arguing that it seeks to criminalize deeply held religious beliefs that are in opposition to homosexuality.

Read Box Turtle Bulletin’s take on this story here.  Find out exactly the only thing these Christians must want.

This shit get’s old, luckily so are the people espousing this bile.

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It’s about frickin time…

Today out of Washington DC:

“No matter how I look at the issue, I cannot escape being troubled by the fact that we have in place a policy which forces young men and women to lie about who they are in order to defend their fellow citizens,” Adm. Mike Mullen, the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, told the Senate Armed Services Committee. He said it was his personal belief that “allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly would be the right thing to do.”

Now, I’m no army boy.  I have about as much interest in fighting a war as I do eating glass.  That said, with all my pacifist tendencies, I still will typically go out of my way to support those who are willing to risk their lives to defend the ideals of this country.  Granted, there are “just” wars and “unjust” wars but that is a political distinction not a practical one.  Regardless of the justification for wars in general, millions of individuals are called on by our government and by a deep sense of personal commitment to the ideals of this country to serve and protect that which we all cherish.  Freedom.  One of the great travesties of Bill Clinton’s time in office was the passage of “Don’t ask Don’t Tell”.  This, in effect, allowed openly gay men and women to serve in the armed forces as long as they were not “out” and did nothing to suggest that they were gay.  If it was discovered they were gay or if they were forced out of the closet by a third party, no matter the reason, they could be discharged…. dishonorably.  Since it’s implementation nearly 17 years ago, between 12,000 and 20,000 GLBT soldiers have been discharged at a cost to tax payers well into the 10’s of millions, many of those kicked out were critical players in the wars this country is fighting, NONE of whom did anything wrong…except be gay.

The implementation of this policy was a big deal.  I was a senior in high school and it was a campaign issue for Bill Clinton.  He would be the first president I actually got to vote for and this “compromise” was, in retrospect, forced on him by bigoted homophobes within the ranks of the military.  It has always been a bad policy, even other major military countries have proven over and over again that allowing gays to serve openly is not an issue.

Finally we are seeing some progress towards repealing this law with hearings that started today.  The big thing out of this is that Joint Chief’s are on board with a repeal.  The question is not IF the policy will be repealed, it is simply a question of HOW it will be repealed.  That’s huge because it means that a repeal is a fact, not a pipe dream.  That they are debating only HOW to repeal the law and not WHY is important.  Stay tuned over the next several months for updates.

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A Name to Remember

Found this on a blog today, seems my fair state of Michigan has yet another wingnut seeking to become the next Secretary of State.  It seems that RepubliKKKans in Michigan are hell bent on continuing to do whatever they can to run on platforms of hate and fear.

I will make it a priority to ensure transgender individuals will not be allowed to change the sex on their driver’s license in any circumstance.

The name is State Rep. Paul Scott, (R-Grand Blanc) and you all need to be sure that you don’t mark is little bubble in the election booth.  I don’t talk much about transgender issues primarily because it doesn’t really relate to me.  However they are the T in GLBT and part of broader Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Trans community.  An attack on one is an attack on all and I have lost most of my patience for political leaders who continue to prey on minorities in this state and in this country.  For Mr. Scott, the above “priority” made it to the top of his list of things he wants to accomplish.  Let’s make sure he doesn’t get that opportunity.  Perhaps we can start addressing some of the issues in the image below rather than worrying about whether or not the person in the stall next to you might have once had a penis.  The statistics below are only 3 years old and I can bet they’ve not changed much.

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Cameras are not allowed

In a rather spineless move, the US Supremes ruled today that television cameras will not be permitted in the courtroom to broadcast the Prop 8 trial in California.  It was a split decision (5-4) and was decided on a technicality, not because of content.  They found that there was not sufficient time for public input (as required) and that the change in rules was not in accordance with Judicial Council policy.

That being the case, at least for this trial, we will have to rely on courtroom reporters and sketch artists.  Due to time and space, I’m not posting much detail about the proceedings of this trial but it is all very interesting.  You can read summaries and transcripts via THIS web site if you are so inclined.  The general consensus at this point is that our side is kicking major ass and proving beyond any reasonable doubt that Prop 8 passed because of fear and hatred towards gays and lesbians.  That is only one aspect of what is trying to be proven but it is an important one because it introduces gays (if successful) as a suspect class at the federal level deserving of heightened scrutiny when it comes to equal treatment.  One of the things that marriage equality hinges on is this fact.  In every state that has found in favor of marriage equality, gays are seen in state law as a suspect class (in the same way that other protected minority groups are).  As a result of that classification, courts had to rule in favor of equality.  Anyhow, some of the arguments being presented are stunning.  The witnesses yesterday were quite insightful and provided lots of information.  It was history day which outlined decades of  discriminatory treatment towards gays and lesbians since the early part of the 20th century.  Today, they dove into social differences and similarities and did a very nice job illustrating that there are actually very few differences between gay couples and straight couples in so far as what they are seeking to accomplish through marriage.  There has been much discussion of the impact that marriage has on children and why marriage directly benefits children whether they are in gay or straight households.  There has also been strong emphasis on the fact that gay families with children DO exist and they are a reality whether people like that fact or not.

You all might be completely board with  this but it is gripping to me.  I should have been a historian or law librarian or something like that, I totally get into this stuff.  This trial, in effect, is putting homosexuality on trial, not just marriage equality.  It is establishing the patterns of discrimination towards gays through the years, it is debunking the religious arguments, it is, in my opinion, going to be one of the most important trials of the decade and it has the potential to have big ramifications for equality.

I finally have a day off tomorrow so I’ll be doing lunch with the folks and then getting things straightened up around the house.  Work is draining right now, not much going on at all.

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Let the Trial Begin

You won’t be able to escape me blogging on what is likely to be one of the most critical trials of my lifetime.  Of course, if you don’t have cable, you likely didn’t hear much of anything about this but perhaps a blurb on the network evening news.  Today began with opening statements in Schwarzenegger v. Perry.  I’ve written about this previously.  It is the trial that will decide the fate of Proposition 8 which was the voter initiative that changed California’s Constitution to prohibit same sex marriage.  That initiative passed by only 2% of the popular vote and as you will read below created a mammoth opportunity to bring this issue front and center for the entire country.  The ramifications of this trail have the potential to be huge.  A win at the state level is almost a certainty with even proponents of Prop 8 indicating that they are unlikely to win.  They would most certainly appeal the decision to SCOTUS and it would be up to the highest court in the land to hear the case.  This of course may take a very long time, maybe even years but as I said in a previous post, it deals directly with one of the most fundamental rights enumerated in our Constitution.  That of due process and equality.

You all know that I don’t write just for my audience, this blog is nearly 3 years old now and I’ve used it for a number of reasons to document the times that we are all living in.  Yes, it does have a slant towards issues that are important to me and it should, after all, I pay money each month for web space to do with whatever I want.  More importantly though, this blog is my way of being politically active, regardless of the fact that nearly all my readers share most of my views, it’s likely that I will say something or even post something from elsewhere that you had not seen before or perhaps never considered.  I consider this blog my history book, something that I can go back to in 20 years and understand what it meant to be living in 2010!

Anyhow, I’m re-posting the opening statement below for you to read.  It lays out exactly what this trial will be about, what is at stake, who is involved, and why it is important.  I will post more as time permits and as the trial develops.

Text of Ted Olson’s Opening Statement in Prop 8 Trial as Prepared

The federal trial over the unconstitutionality of Proposition 8 began today with an opening statement by attorney Theodore Olson, who with David Boies is leading the legal team assembled by the American Foundation for Equal Rights to litigate the case Perry v. Schwarzenegger. Opening statements will be followed by testimony from Kris Perry, Sandy Stier, Paul Katami and Jeff Zarrillo, who comprise two couples who wish to be married but who were denied marriage licenses because of Proposition 8.

After the opening statement David Boies gave the direct examination of Jeff Zarrillo and Paul Katami.

OPENING STATEMENT
(as prepared)

This case is about marriage and equality.  Plaintiffs are being denied both the right to marry, and the right to equality under the law.

The Supreme Court of the United States has repeatedly described the right to marriage as “one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men;” a “basic civil right;” a component of the constitutional rights to liberty, privacy, association, and intimate choice; an expression of emotional support and public commitment; the exercise of spiritual unity; and a fulfillment of one’s self.

In short, in the words of the highest court in the land, marriage is “the most important relation in life,” and “of fundamental importance for all individuals.”

As the witnesses in this case will elaborate, marriage is central to life in America.  It promotes mental, physical and emotional health and the economic strength and stability of those who enter into a marital union.  It is the building block of family, neighborhood and community.  The California Supreme Court has declared that the right to marry is of “central importance to an individual’s opportunity to live a happy, meaningful, and satisfying life as a full member of society.”

Proposition 8 ended the dream of marriage, the most important relation in life, for the plaintiffs and hundreds of thousands of Californians.

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In May of 2008, the California Supreme Court concluded that under this State’s Constitution, the right to marry a person of one’s choice extended to all individuals, regardless of sexual orientation, and was available equally to same-sex and opposite-sex couples.

In November of 2008, the voters of California responded to that decision with Proposition 8, amending the State’s Constitution and, on the basis of sexual orientation and sex, slammed the door to marriage to gay and lesbian citizens.

The plaintiffs are two loving couples, American citizens, entitled to equality and due process under our Constitution.  They are in deeply committed, intimate, and longstanding relationships.  They want to marry the person they love; to enter into that “most important relation in life”; to share their dreams with their partners; and to confer the many benefits of marriage on their families.

But Proposition 8 singled out gay men and lesbians as a class, swept away their right to marry, pronounced them unequal, and declared their relationships inferior and less-deserving of respect and dignity.

In the words of the California Supreme Court, eliminating the right of individuals to marry a same-sex partner relegated those individuals to “second class” citizenship, and told them, their families and their neighbors that their love and desire for a sanctioned marital partnership was not worthy of recognition.

During this trial, Plaintiffs and leading experts in the fields of history, psychology, economics and political science will prove three fundamental points:

First – Marriage is vitally important in American society.

Second – By denying gay men and lesbians the right to marry, Proposition 8 works a grievous harm on the plaintiffs and other gay men and lesbians throughout California, and adds yet another chapter to the long history of discrimination they have suffered.

Third – Proposition 8 perpetrates this irreparable, immeasurable, discriminatory harm for no good reason.

I

MARRIAGE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATION IN LIFE

Plaintiffs will present evidence from leading experts, representing some of the finest academic institutions in this country and the world, who will reinforce what the highest courts of California and the United States have already repeatedly said about the importance of marriage in society and the significant benefits that marriage confers on couples, their families, and the community.  Proponents cannot dispute these basic facts.

While marriage has been a revered and important institution throughout the history of this country and this State, it has also evolved to shed irrational, unwarranted, and discriminatory restrictions and limitations that reflected the biases, prejudices or stereotypes of the past.  Marriage laws that disadvantaged women or people of disfavored race or ethnicity have been eliminated.  These changes have come from legislatures and the courts.  Far from harming the institution of marriage, the elimination of discriminatory restrictions on marriage has strengthened the institution, its vitality, and its importance in American society today.

II

PROPOSITION 8 HARMS GAY AND LESBIAN INDIVIDUALS, THEIR CHILDREN AND THEIR COMMUNITIES

Proposition 8 had a simple, straightforward, and devastating purpose:  to withdraw from gay and lesbian people like the Plaintiffs their previously recognized constitutional right to marry.  The official title of the ballot measure said it all: “Eliminates Right of Same-Sex Couples to Marry.”

Proponents of Proposition 8 have insisted that the persons they would foreclose from the institution of marriage have suffered no harm because they have been given the opportunity to form something called a “domestic partnership.”  That is a cruel fiction.

Plaintiffs will describe the harm that they suffer every day because they are prevented from marrying.  And they will describe how demeaning and insulting it can be to be told that they remain free to marry—as long, that is, that they marry someone of the opposite sex instead of the person they love, the companion of their choice.

And the evidence will demonstrate that relegating gay men and lesbians to “domestic partnerships” is to inflict upon them badges of inferiority that forever stigmatize their loving relationships as different, separate, unequal, and less worthy—something akin to a commercial venture, not a loving union.  Indeed, the proponents of Proposition 8 acknowledge that domestic partnerships are not the same as traditional marriage.  Proponents proudly proclaim that, under Proposition 8, the “unique and highly favorable imprimatur” of marriage is reserved to “opposite-sex unions.”

This government-sponsored societal stigmatization causes grave psychological and physical harms to gay men and lesbians and their families.  It increases the likelihood that they will experience discrimination and harassment; it causes immeasurable harm.

Sadly, Proposition 8 is only the most recent chapter in our nation’s long and painful history of discrimination and prejudice against gay and lesbian individuals.  They have been classified as degenerates, targeted by police, harassed in the workplace, censored, demonized, fired from government jobs, excluded from our armed forces, arrested for their private sexual conduct, and repeatedly stripped of their fundamental rights by popular vote.  Although progress has occurred, the roots of discrimination run deep and its impacts spread wide.

III

PROPOSITION 8 HARMS GAY AND LESBIAN INDIVIDUALS FOR NO GOOD REASON

Proposition 8 singles out gay and lesbian individuals alone for exclusion from the institution of marriage.  In California, even convicted murderers and child abusers enjoy the freedom to marry.  As the evidence clearly establishes, this discrimination has been placed in California’s Constitution even though its victims are, and always have been, fully contributing members of our society.   And it excludes gay men and lesbians from the institution of marriage even though the characteristic for which they are targeted—their sexual orientation—like race, sex, and ethnicity, is a fundamental aspect of their identity that they did not choose for themselves and, as the California Supreme Court has found, is highly resistant to change.

The State of California has offered no justification for its decision to eliminate the fundamental right to marry for a segment of its citizens.  And its chief legal officer, the Attorney General, admits that none exists.  And the evidence will show that each of the rationalizations for Proposition 8 invented by its Proponents is wholly without merit.

“Procreation” cannot be a justification inasmuch as Proposition 8 permits marriage by persons who are unable or have no intention of producing children.   Indeed, the institution of civil marriage in this country has never been tied to the procreative capacity of those seeking to marry.

Proposition 8 has no rational relation to the parenting of children because same-sex couples and opposite sex couples are equally permitted to have and raise children in California.  The evidence in this case will demonstrate that gay and lesbian individuals are every bit as capable of being loving, caring and effective parents as heterosexuals.  The quality of a parent is not measured by gender but the content of the heart.

And, as for protecting “traditional marriage,” our opponents “don’t know” how permitting gay and lesbian couples to marry would harm the marriages of opposite-sex couples.  Needless to say, guesswork and speculation is not an adequate justification for discrimination.  In fact, the evidence will demonstrate affirmatively that permitting loving, deeply committed, couples like the plaintiffs to marry has no impact whatsoever upon the marital relationships of others.

When voters in California were urged to enact Proposition 8, they were encouraged to believe that unless Proposition 8 were enacted, anti-gay religious institutions would be closed, gay activists would overwhelm the will of the heterosexual majority, and that children would be taught that it was “acceptable” for gay men and lesbians to marry.  Parents were urged to “protect our children” from that presumably pernicious viewpoint.

At the end of the day, whatever the motives of its Proponents, Proposition 8 enacted an utterly irrational regime to govern entitlement to the fundamental right to marry, consisting now of at least four separate and distinct classes of citizens:  (1) heterosexuals, including convicted criminals, substance abusers and sex offenders, who are permitted to marry; (2) 18,000 same-sex couples married between June and November of 2008,  who are allowed to remain married but may not remarry if they divorce or are widowed; (3) thousands of same-sex couples who were married in certain other states prior to November of 2008, whose marriages are now valid and recognized in California; and, finally (4) all other same-sex couples in California who, like the Plaintiffs, are prohibited from marrying by Proposition 8.

There is no rational justification for this unique pattern of discrimination.  Proposition 8, and the irrational pattern of California’s regulation of marriage which it promulgates, advances no legitimate state interest.  All it does is label gay and lesbian persons as different, inferior, unequal, and disfavored.  And it brands their relationships as not the same, and less-approved than those enjoyed by opposite sex couples.  It stigmatizes gays and lesbians, classifies them as outcasts, and causes needless pain, isolation and humiliation.

It is unconstitutional.

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Politics as Usual

A couple months ago, New York failed to grow a spin and enact marriage equality, yesterday New Jersey followed suit and failed to pass a marriage equality bill.  Neither was expected to come out favorably for marriage equality but it’s still a little shitty that these politicians are more concerned about getting elected than they are about treating everyone equally.  New Jersey is particularly stubborn.  Several years ago, the NJ Supreme Court ruled that gays were not being treated equally (duh) and mandated that the legislature fix the problem.   They did so by passing a Domestic Partnership law, one that was quite comprehensive and in many ways “everything but marriage”.  Shoot ahead a few years and mountains of evidence that the DP law does not work.  Gays are STILL being denied access to their partners in hospitals, they are still being denied public services, etc.  Some of this is because those providing services don’t understand that according to NJ law, there is NO difference between a marriage and a domestic partnership, but because they are called different things, those people believe they are in fact different.  Once again we see the concept of separate but equal NOT working.  The NJ Legislature had an opportunity to fix the problem and enact marriage equality legislation but they got cold feet because even though they had a Democratic majority, the current Democratic Governor lost in the recent election.  They had until yesterday to enact the law in the lame-duck session.  NJ elected a Republican by a slim margin who is very vocally anti-gay.  NJ will have to wait until the next election now.  This whole politics thing is just stupid.

So on to the reason for this post.  For those of you not following, there is a trial starting next week that has the potential (regardless of the outcome) to change the game entirely on Marriage Equality.  This is the Prop. 8 trial in California that was brought by 2 very high profile attorneys who were previously known for arguing the trial concerning the 2000 Presidential election.  Anyhow, I’m posting a link that details why this trial is so important.  Here is a snip:

All four senators spoke around this point, saying that the voters should decide.  Sen. Doherty was insistent that this wasn’t about prejudice, it was about “process.”  But, again, that’s not an argument.  Of course voters have voted down equality for same-sex couples, in many cases actually changing their state constitutions to clarify that same-sex couples are not entitled to equality.  But the rejection of a constitutional principle for a very small minority, a principle that is generally applicable to everyone in the majority, is not only not the solution to the problem being presented, it is, itself, the problem which the equal protection clause was supposed to address.  Why would an equal protection clause be necessary if it was only there to protect the majority?

The Prop. 8 case will be addressing that question head-on, and the witnesses opposing same-sex marriage will have to present the kind of arguments that the New Jersey senators were not obligated to offer.  The question is a focused one: What justification does the government have for treating same-sex couples and opposite sex couples differently in light of the fact that the federal constitution does include a provision that explicitly says all citizens should be treated equally under the law?

Read the entire story here

The context of this article pertains to the fact that again and again and as witnessed in NJ, opponents of marriage equality are refusing to publicly state WHY they are opposed to it.  They are dancing around questions, changing the subject, and any number of other political tactics to AVOID the real question at hand.  Their arguments, as can be derived through a very basic understanding of  CIVIL law have no merit.   Whether this trail secedes or not is almost not as important as creating this forum that will force opponents of marriage equality to SPECIFICALLY state the reasons for their views and SUPPORT them with evidence, under oath, and in public which is something more and more of them are either having a very hard time doing or they refuse to do so at all.  This will be the sort of trial that books are written about, again regardless of the outcome, because it pertains to a clause in the Constitution that is so critically important to our mere existence.  IF the civil rights of minorities do not matter, why is there an equal protection clause in the constitution?  You’ve got to study this a bit deeper folks, you need to know the case law behind it, the precedents (specifically that marriage IS in fact a civil right in the first place).  More importantly, you’ve simply GOT to come up with a better argument than the “because God says so” meme.  There will be plenty more on this over the next several months.

Meanwhile, I’m off for the weekend, going to relax a bit and listen to Lala.com.

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Take the Hint Grand Rapids etc.

It would seem that the largely Dutch CRC/Calvinist crowd in Grand Rapids could take a hint from their counterparts in the Netherlands.  Most of you readers know that I attended Grand Rapids Christian High for my high school years.  Honestly, I can’t complain too much, I would have never made it out alive in a public school.  That said, one of the most difficult things I had to deal with in High School was coming to grips with my own sexuality.  It was something I struggled with for the most part alone, not because I had some innate fear of talking to anyone else about it but largely because with the exception of 1 or 2 close friends and some random acquaintances outside of school, I knew very few people who were gay and I just didn’t really know how to approach it.  Like any other teen, I wasn’t terribly interested in discussing much of anything with my folks despite their best intentions so that left me with peers and adults in an environment that was not necessarily condemning of homosexuality but was by no means welcoming of it.  The “hate the sin, love the sinner” concept that was preached was (and is) hugely flawed and as a gay teen, I saw right through that.  This was of course in the early 90’s when gays in the military was a huge issue and the gay community was still recovering from the worst of the AIDS pandemic.  Ignorance was the norm, not the exception like it is today.

So, looking back, I can only imagine how my life might have been changed by having a visibly ”out”  gay teacher, or some other well adjusted gay adult figure in my life.  Even in the early 90’s the images of gays that I was constantly being fed were either the stereotype, lispy, nelly man (think Will and Grace) or the perhaps “out” gay man who was lonely, confused, and spiritually dead.  The later was certainly the image my CRC/Calvinist teachers wanted their students to have of gay people, they just laughed at the former.  Human sure, but deeply flawed.

So the article below might represent a shift in attitudes yet again as we enter a new decade.  I’ve been out of high school now for 16 years and a lot can change and a lot IS vastly different now for kids than it was when I was 16 years old.  There are very prominent role models now that are openly gay, from sports figures, to politicians, to successful entrepreneurs.  The climate is entirely different now with 5 states that permit gay marriage and even forceful discussion about repealing the military Don’t ask Don’t Tell policy which by the way is now is getting a lot of traction due to the public’s overwhelming support of repealing that law.  It’s a world where I can go into a very male oriented workplace and not be at all concerned for my safety or my reputation.  In short it’s entirely different.  The game has changed completely.

Dutch Christian schools start teaching respect and empathy for gays

I have become convinced that pretending homosexuality doesn’t exist is not an option. …It does exist.  Gay teachers work at each of the four Reformed schools and there are students with homosexual feelings.  We want these students have a good school experience, they are allowed to exist.
– Huib van Leeuwen, President of the Reformed Schools committee

The world is indeed a different place today than it was just 10 years ago, even more so it is a vastly different place than it was 20-30 years ago.  That’s a good thing and it’s a welcome thing.  As a gay man today, I am not asking for your approval but I am asking that you acknowledge my existence as a human being, just like you, and that I am allowed to exist and live my life free of your ideological interference.

Some People Are Gay

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Eyes on New York?

I’ve had a little more time to write lately so here’s the next political fight.  Legislative action to approve or pass a bill to legalize gay marriage in the Empire State.  I’m posting the video below to show you basically what the GLBT community is up against in pretty much every state this has been fought in.  Here the constituent of a Republican state senator makes very clear statements of fact and leaves all kinds of room for this senator to address at least one of multiple questions and statements which might at least provide an explanation of the way he will vote on the issue when it  comes up.  It is not at all illogical for a constituent to demand to know their representative’s position on an issue.  He provides no argument to support his position and offers no explanation to this constituent as to why he feels it is important to vote against the measure.

I’m awfully tired of this sort of thing.  Honestly I don’t really care if you are against gays having legal recognition but I REALLY care that you actually have some sort of argument to support your position.  It’s like kid asking a parent why you can’t do something and a parent telling you “BECAUSE I SAID SO”.  That might work for 10 year old but it’s a bullshit argument when directed adult to adult.  The gay marriage argument badly needs to head in a new direction and I’ve said this on my blog here before, I want to see the religion aspect of the entire debate put to rest.  Marriage in this country is not, has not ever been, nor will it EVER be anything other than a CIVIL contract provided by a SECULAR government.  What your church or your religion thinks about marriage is entirely irrelevant to the business of our government.  You can hoot and holler all you want but it simply is not an argument that you can justifiably take which is why at this point in time the best thing gays have going for them is the federal lawsuit involving DOMA.  That’s way more than I’m writing about now but this whole thing is going to get a whole lot uglier in this country before it gets any better and now is the time to figure out what you believe to be true.

From my perspective this is certainly an interesting time to be alive.  I’m too young to know much about the civil rights struggles of the 60’s but I’m old enough now to know and understand the parallels that exist.  I fully expect to see full equality in my lifetime but I’m not so naive to believe that it will be soon.

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